Pigeon holes……

This post was originally posted on the 7th August 2012

Hello again. Today’s post was triggered off by a good friend of mine taking a peek at the list of albums I currently have stored on my new phone.

While scrolling through the somewhat large list with all the appropriate nods and mutters of approval she suddenly exclaimed “Well I hardly think that’s your kind of music!”

People that know me in real life know I absolutely love rock music, loud guitars, drums, black eyeliner, all things Gothic, have many gorgeous tattoo’s and (currently red) very bright hair, so it could be fair to say I am a bit of a rock/goth/hippy chic.

Arn’t I just soo cool

Now in that description I have identified 3 separate stereotypes, each of which you could make up a mental picture of If you tried.

There is nothing wrong with the use of stereotypes as such, being a student of psychology ( another hobby) I have found out that the mind needs stereotypes to quickly process information about a person in order to determine how to behave towards that person.

If you had no stereotype for what a policeman was, how would you know who to look for if you needed help?

The problem with stereotypes is when they develop into prejudices. Instead of being a set of indicators to give a person a rough idea about what a person may be like, stereotypes are developed into a set of ridged inflexible rules about what a person is and how they must behave. this prejudice leads to individuals being pigeon holed.

What is a chaemo?

The prejudice that develops from stereotyping is evident in all warps of life, but as this blog began about music, Iwill restrict myself to talking solely about that…. So what exactly is a chaemo and how does it relate to pigeon holing in music? Well this is a definition my two teenage boys have come up with to describe their music tastes as they (like their mother) refuse to conform to traditional musical stereotypes ( the need to classify themselves at all is quite sad though I feel) and reflects their love of hardcore Drum and Bass (chave music) alongside their love of a certain style of rock music known as Emo (emotive rock). 

This new classification of music style allows them to express their tastes in music as well as the style of dress they wear (black clothes adorned with chav bling and the all important baseball cap!)

However should they at some point in the future find themselves listening appreciatively to the likes of Beyonce or The Saturdays, well they are going to run the risk of  being derided by their fellow ‘chaemos’.

I  never  believed I should  define the way I dress, act or the music I listen to by a particular stereotype. I have always loved a wide variety of music from the likes of Adele and The Scissor Sisters, to Green Day and Foo Fighters, although others still try to put me in the rock music pigeon hole.

 So to anyone who says that the selection of bands I listen to have nothing in common I say this, “they are all bands I like, that is what they have and all they need to have in common”.

 And just in case you were wondering, the offending album that sparked this blog was the delightful and incredibly talented Mika.  

So, that’s my blog for today.
Do you feel that you are stereotyped or pigeon holed by the styles of music you like, or would I find your music collection even more eclectic than my own?

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  1. Relentleslypurple

    December 17, 2017 at 8:04 am

    Love this post! I enjoyed Mika’s album whilst dressed like a goth/grunger 😂 I prefer people who have an eclectic taste in music as I find they tend to be more open-minded anyway. My caretakers probably get quite confused when I am cleaning. I can start with Merkules, move to Coldplay, Slipknot then bob marley and Tracey Chapman. 😂😂😂

  2. Pickinguptoys

    July 5, 2017 at 5:08 pm

    I prefer mainly rock/metal but have quite a broad taste other than happy hardcore I’ll listen to pretty much anything.I love that they made up their own name though!It’s genius 😂

    1. hooks_and_dragons

      July 5, 2017 at 5:24 pm

      You should have heard the crap M was trying to make me listen to this morning 😂

  3. bumbismom

    August 17, 2015 at 8:46 pm

    I love a good eclectic mix of music. My daughter has her own playlist featuring everything from Pearl Jam to Minnie Mouse. I sang along to MC Hammer’s 2 Legit 2 Quit at her gym class this weekend and later I was soaking up one of my favorite Led Zeppelin songs -Kashmir. This was a great post and very poignant. It is terrible to be stereotyped based on looks or lifestyle. Just because I have a couple tattoos doesn’t mean I can’t appreciate a little Vivaldi.

    1. The Anxious Dragon

      August 17, 2015 at 9:18 pm

      I agree with you completely. I am a very nerdy history geek but you wouldnt guess that from my outward appearance xx

  4. Ian Young

    July 7, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    I’m rather old so I’m stuck in 70s and 80s music!

    1. Dragon Stuff

      July 7, 2015 at 7:41 pm

      Nothing wrong with that, some of the best rock music ever written was penned in the 70’s and 80’s

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